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Unraveling the Threads of Life
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Social Security
by LouiseSilk
Apr 24, 2014 | 93 views | 0 0 comments | 0 0 recommendations | email to a friend | print | permalink

As I get older and money gets tighter, the big question for people like me is when is the best time to start taking social security?


Steve is older than I am and has the higher primary insurance amount. His benefits based on his earnings record will last until both of us die. If he lives into his late 80s (His dad is 95) and I make it into my 80s, all of the advice points to delaying Social Security benefits for him until he turns 70 and taking spousal benefits for me beginning at age 67.


The numbers: Assume Steve’s primary insurance amount is $2,400, his full retirement age is 66 and he lives to be 92 and I live to be 89. Our cumulative lifetime benefits based on Steve’s earnings would be $836,352 if he delays benefits until 70 but only $648,000 if he begins his benefits at age 62. The difference: $188,352!


Do the math. It will shock you.

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The In-Box
by LouiseSilk
Apr 17, 2014 | 83 views | 0 0 comments | 0 0 recommendations | email to a friend | print | permalink
My InBox
My InBox

I love simple form and function. One of my pet peeves is clutter. Applied to my computer, I work at maintaining a very un-cluttered functional in-box. This is quite the challenge because everyone, everywhere wants to send their emails for marking purposes. It’s the same to me as junk snail mail or mass marketing calls. By the way, I recently got caller ID (which includes caller- blocking) and that it a heaven-sent solution to ignoring marketing calls.

What do I allow into my in-box with regularity? Once a week I get The best of Macworld and a yarn shopping web site. I get one email a day from Livestrong and one from Pinterest and that’s it. I get more emails from the library than my husband and my kids prefer texts.

If I am interested in some person or some topic I follow them on twitter where it is my choice rather than theirs to explore the information offering. My in-box is like my work table- always neatly arranged and ready for the next project.

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The Count Begins
by LouiseSilk
Apr 13, 2014 | 247 views | 0 0 comments | 0 0 recommendations | email to a friend | print | permalink

Counting of the Omer began as an ancient Jewish agricultural ritual of marking each of the 49 days as the Israelites' journeyed from bondage in Egypt to revelation at Mount Sinai.

For the Jewish mystics of the 16th and 17th centuries, the Counting of the Omer became a time of spiritual cleansing preparing their souls to receive divine guidance on Shavuot.

These days it is possible to use the counting as a 49-day mindfulness practice to renew our nefesh, ruach and neshamah- the layers of body, mind and soul- to live more compassionate lives. Using the mystical tradition, we divide the 49 days into seven one-week periods, each containing a specific spiritual quality according to the 10 sefirot or Divine Emanations. On each of the 49 days, two of the qualities intersect with each other so that each day is unique.

  1. Chesed of Chesed: generosity vs. lack of boundaries
  2. Gevruah of Chesed: strength that enables generosity
  3. Tiferet of Chesed: compassion of generosity
  4. Netzach of Chesed: perseverance in generous
  5. Hod of Chesed: sincerity of generosity
  6. Yesod of Chesed: connecting to the task of being generous
  7. Malchut of Chesed: accepting and including generosity
  8. Chesed of Gevurah: kindness in strength
  9. Gevurah of Gevurah: strength vs. rigidity
  10. Tiferet of Gevurah: balance and mercy with strength
  11. Netzach of Gevurah: persistence with strength
  12. Hod of Gevurah: surrender as an expression of strength
  13. Yesod of Gevurah: focused intention applied with strength
  14. Malchut of Gevurah: receptivity as an expression of strength

15-21. Each sephirah, Chesed, Gevorah, Tiferet, Netzah, Hod, Yesod, Malchut applied to Tiferet: compassion

22-28. Each sephirah, Chesed, Gevorah, Tiferet, Netzah, Hod, Yesod, Malchut applied Netzah: perseverance

29-35. Each sephirah, Chesed, Gevorah, Tiferet, Netzah, Hod, Yesod, Malchut applied to Hod: surrender

36-42. Each sephirah, Chesed, Gevorah, Tiferet, Netzah, Hod, Yesod, Malchut applied to Yesod: intention and connection

43-49. Each sephirah, Chesed, Gevorah, Tiferet, Netzah, Hod, Yesod, Malchut applied to Malchut: receptivity and nurturance


Here are three different links to enhance your 49 day experience: one for Chabad, The Meaningful Life Center, and Reconstruction Rabbi Yael Levy from Mishkan Shalom in Philadelphia.

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Special Edition Seder
by LouiseSilk
Apr 10, 2014 | 68 views | 0 0 comments | 0 0 recommendations | email to a friend | print | permalink

This year Seder night will include a total Lunar Eclipse.  It begins at 2 AM when the edge of the moon first enters the amber core of Earth's shadow. This video from 2011 has a nice explanation of the what, how and why and Michael Zeiler’s field guide to the total lunar eclipse of 2014 is a simulation of what the coppery-red moon will look like.


I searched for a special prayer that might be added to the Seder to acknowledge this eclipse and found that Hebrew word for eclipse Likui means defect. The Talmud states that because a lunar Likui is a bad sign for Israel (a solar eclipse is even worse as a bad omen for the entire world), an eclipse does not have a blessing.


But in today’s world, we know that the eclipse is not a defect. It is a beautiful act of nature. Here is the perfect addition for your Seder: the blessing for a nature wonder or phenomena:  


Barukh attah Adonai eloheinu melekh ha-olam osei ma'asei vereisheet.

Blessed are You, The Infinite One, Who reenacts the works of creation.


Barukh attah Adonai eloheinu melekh ha-olam shekocho ugevurato malei olam.

Blessed are You, The Infinite One, Whose power and might fill the world.


Chag Same'ach

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Miles To Go Before We Sleep
by LouiseSilk
Apr 08, 2014 | 132 views | 0 0 comments | 0 0 recommendations | email to a friend | print | permalink

I’ve had a lot on my mind. It started with my 95-year-old father-in-law moving into the personal care portion of the Jewish Association on Aging. Having lived in a small town outside of Altoona most of his life, he has to pinch himself to believe that finally in the final years of his life, he finds himself in a community of Jews.

I watched the fascinating five part series by the British Historian Simon Schama: The Story of the Jews a PBS series that is informative and thought provoking. Schama proves that given our history of marginalization, demonization and annihilation, it is quite improbable and at best very complicated to find acceptance in this contemporary heterogeneous world.

There is an article by Jonathan Chait in this issue of New York Magazine entitled The Color of His Presidency documenting how much the obsession with race factored insidiously into Obama’s presidency even as he worked time and again to navigate beyond the everywhere-and-nowhere racial fixation that surrounded him.

Another PBS production by Daniel Goldhagen: Worse Than War: Genocide, Eliminationism, and the Ongoing Assault on Humanity, describes the use of fear and power to get seemingly normal people to commit heinous crimes of massacres, exterminations and forced expulsions in the attempt to eliminate unwanted or threatening groups as a way to destroy opposition and safeguard their power.

Where does it end? What does it take? How are we to find the oneness in our differences? No rest for the weary.

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Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) aka Food Stamps
by LouiseSilk
Apr 03, 2014 | 223 views | 0 0 comments | 1 1 recommendations | email to a friend | print | permalink

On the first of the month, hundreds of millions of taxpayer dollars (Last year, it was $76 billion) are instantly downloaded onto debit cards so that 47 million poverty-line Americans can received their monthly allotment of food stamp dollars, on average, about $130 per person.  Within minutes, 30% of these Americans will head to the nearest 24-hour Wal-Mart, the reaper of great profits from this necessity spending.

The Farm Bill that passed earlier this year promises to cut $8.6 billion out of SNAP over the next decade. In Pennsylvania, 14% of our families will average a very depressing total drop of $183 each.

Nearly one in three working families in the U.S. struggles to pay for the basic necessities every month. How do you think you would do on a low wage salary? Try this tool developed by Public Radio Market Place to see what it takes to make ends meet.


Hunger in America-it’s a shanda.

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Clearly, We Are The Fools
by LouiseSilk
Apr 01, 2014 | 210 views | 0 0 comments | 0 0 recommendations | email to a friend | print | permalink

Denial of the science is malpractice. U.S. Secretary of State John Kerry

The report, Climate Change 2014: Impacts, Adaptation, and Vulnerability released yesterday by the UN, shows that there is a 95 percent the probability that most global warming is man-made.

The report details how the effects of carbon emissions that will linger for centuries are the cause of global warming that threatens the health, economic prospects, and food and water sources in all continents and oceans across the world.

Here is the UN in Action. Lend your support!

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A Call To Action
by LouiseSilk
Mar 27, 2014 | 248 views | 0 0 comments | 0 0 recommendations | email to a friend | print | permalink

President Jimmy Carter has most certainly risen to the top in his retirement efforts in his new book, A Call To Action: Women, Religion, Violence, and Power.

He makes a brilliant, honest case about how every nation’s discrimination and violence against women and girls remains the most serious, pervasive, and ignored violation of basic human rights. What separates him from others is how he not only references government and business, but also bravely takes on religion.

Rosalynn and Jimmy Carter operate The Carter Center through which they have visited over 145 countries and created active projects in more than half of these. Their experiences and the testimony of courageous women from all regions and all major religions that are denied equal rights fueled the work that supports a call to action.

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This is the New Eighty
by LouiseSilk
Mar 25, 2014 | 230 views | 0 0 comments | 0 0 recommendations | email to a friend | print | permalink

Happy Birthday, Gloria

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Heart and Soul
by LouiseSilk
Mar 20, 2014 | 113 views | 0 0 comments | 0 0 recommendations | email to a friend | print | permalink

We are always shocked to hear the stories about religions that are uncontrollably forcing their beliefs on others, leaving evil and destruction all along the path. Some well-known examples are in the Church of the Latter-Day Saints and Scientology.

Recently, Frontline did an eye-opening must-be-seen piece about the Vatican’s illicit sex and money scandals, including the punitive actions against those harmed who have reached out for justice and healing.

We always were taught- these things don’t happen in Judaism, but tragically, they do. There is an organization in NYC, Footsteps, that provides a safe and supportive community for ultra-Orthodox Jewish men and women as they define identities beyond their insular communities.

From that has grown the It Gets Besser initiative proving that people can have happy productive lives beyond their birth communities.

May The Holy One bless them and keep them as they forge the path.  

In the words of It Gets Besser:

If you’re interested in leaving your religious community,

we're not saying you should.

we're not saying you would.

we're saying you could.

you could leave,

you could rebuild,

you could be healthy,

you could be happy,

you could be free.

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